I don’t play the idle waiting game very well, so I've spent the last few weeks tackling a long "before baby comes" to-do list. Now yesterday's due date has come and gone, and we're still waiting! With my list practically finished, I decided to use the
remaining pregnancy time to catch up on the blog posts I've meant to write throughout the pregnancy. In particular, I want to record the steps I've had to take to pursue the home birth VBAC (Vaginal Birth After C-section) that I’m hoping to experience
in the very near future.
Passing the days with my energetic toddler! |
If you want to plan a home birth
with a Certified Professional Midwife in the state of Wisconsin, you essentially
have to find a midwife who will take you on as a “low-risk” patient. While still being bound to their license and standards of practice, each midwife is allowed to determine her own level of expertise
when it comes to judging what they consider “low risk.” In Wisconsin, VBAC,
twin, and breech births are all allowed in a home setting. However, an
individual midwife may not personally feel qualified to service a VBAC, twin,
or breech pregnancy, and can decline a client who fits one or more of those
categories.
My own midwife has never delivered a
breech baby or twins. Though she has been trained in how to coach breech births,
she has always been able to successfully turn a breech baby to the more optimal
head-down position before labor has begun. When we discovered that Jadon had
turned breech during labor, my midwife made it clear that she was willing to
stay at home with me if I chose to do so, but stressed that breech deliveries
were outside of her realm of expertise. I decided to transfer to the hospital
for a likely c-section, rather than put my midwife, and myself, in a risky
position that neither of us felt prepared for (check out Jadon's birth story here).
A year after Jadon’s birth, Jon and
I were thrilled to discover that Baby #2 was on the way, and that my midwife was perfectly comfortable delivering the new baby in our
home. However, in order to legally assist a VBAC, Certified Professional
Midwives in Wisconson have to follow a few extra rules. First, the midwife must
have a protocol for fully disclosing the risks of VBAC to their client. Second,
the client must not have a vertical incision from the previous c-section, nor a
low-lying placenta. Third, the midwife must consult with a physician to have
confirmation that the client is a good candidate for a VBAC.
How did we find a doctor who was "home birth friendly?" Check out my previous post.
How did we find a doctor who was "home birth friendly?" Check out my previous post.
Meeting the Consulting Doctor
I met with Dr. W for the first time
when I was 12 weeks pregnant. He listened attentively as I recounted the
details of Jadon’s c-section, reviewed what I had researched about VBAC births,
and shared that I intended to birth at home. “However,” I continued, “I’m not a
home birth nut who would avoid a hospital birth at all costs. I’m not seeing
you just because I have to have a consulting doctor in order to get my home
birth. I value your opinion as a medical professional, and I would really want to know
if you considered my pregnancy unfit for a VBAC in any way.”
And then I held my breath for what
he had to say.
He began by affirming what I had
researched about VBAC’s, especially that I was an excellent candidate for one.
Not only was Jadon birthed by c-section simply for being breech, but my
incision was cut in a "low transverse" fashion, and my uterus was
closed with a "double layer uterine closure." He said that I was
especially likely to succeed because, before I got on the operating table, my
cervix had completely dilated with Jadon's labor. He said that most VBAC
patients are nervous about uterine rupture, but the odds of a rupture are still
less than one percent of all VBAC births. Then, he complimented me on how
informed my plans are. "You know, Alison," he went on to say, "If I were a betting man, I'd
put down money on your successful home birth VBAC. I can't wait to congratulate
you when you've accomplished your goal."
Honestly, I was a little speechless
at that point. He then proceeded to ask me questions about the role I wanted him to
play in this pregnancy. First, he asked how often I would like to see him since
I am receiving dual care with my midwife.
“Maybe every other month until the
final weeks of pregnancy?” I posited.
“Done,” he replied.
Did I want his office or my midwife
to do my blood work in the coming weeks?
“I’d prefer for my midwife to do my
blood work.”
“No problem.”
How many ultrasounds did I want,
when did I want them, and would like I to use the hospital ultrasound
equipment, or use another provider?
“I would like one ultrasound at
about 20 weeks, and I’d love to use your hospital technician.”
“So, we’ll be seeing you in about 8
weeks then!”
My spirit was practically soaring
out of the examination room from the joy of making all these decisions for
myself with no pressure to do anything differently! Who is this member of the
“medical establishment” that was giving me all this decision-making power for
my baby and pregnancy?!
The Ultrasound
Eight weeks later, Jon,
Jadon and I returned to the hospital to see Baby #2 on the ultrasound screen.
Jadon loved running down the wide, open hallways while Jon and I walked behind.
Like any expecting
mother, I hoped that the ultrasound would confirm that the baby was measuring
properly and had all of its organs developing normally. This ultrasound was
especially important to me because we needed verify that the location of the
placenta was a safe distance away from any c-section scar tissue. If the
placenta were to be on top of my scar, I would be at a greater risk for a
condition called placenta accreta, in
which the placenta attaches too deeply into the uterine wall. If the placenta
is attached too deeply, it may not separate from the uterine wall on its own
after the baby is delivered, which can result in hemorrhaging and other
dangerous complications. I certainly wouldn’t want to deliver at home if my
placenta was in a “high-risk” location.
Finally, we were anxious
to find out the sex of Baby #2…would Jadon be getting a baby brother or sister
in May?
Once in the examination
room, Jadon was very curious about the table on which I reclined, and all the
fancy buttons and screens nearby. I was so thankful Jon was there to keep him
from getting into trouble.
The technician soon
started scanning Baby #2, pointing out all the organs and limbs as she measured
and recorded. I was so relieved to hear that the baby appeared to be developing
as it should be. I was especially thankful to know that the placenta was
located high up on the uterine wall, safely away from the surgery scar and the
opening of the cervix. Thank you, LORD!
I see a nice round head like Jadon's! 20 week ultrasound |
When it was time to find
out the sex of the baby, she kept scrolling the wand over my belly, trying to
approach the baby from different points of view. While we waited for her to get
a good angle, I asked what they do in order to identify the baby as a girl. Do
they only look for the absence of male genitalia, or do they actually look for
the presence of something? She explained that you can usually see "three
white lines" in a girl's genital area. She continued to scan and pause,
and then start scanning again. Finally, she admitted that the baby really
wasn't giving her a good angle, and that the best she could tell us is that we
have a 60% chance of having a girl, and a 40% chance of having a boy. Although
we clearly couldn’t see male genitalia, she was not convinced that we had a
clear enough view to confirm that it wasn't a boy.
Having scheduled my next
appointment with Dr. W immediately following the ultrasound, we shared our
initial disappointments with him. To our surprise, he offered to schedule another
ultrasound free of charge so that we could find out what we’d be having! I was
definitely tempted to take up the offer, but Jon gently reminded me that we
really wanted to minimize our baby’s exposure to ultrasound technology. I
agreed that having an ultrasound simply to confirm the sex was trivial. With no
other medically necessary ultrasounds needed on the horizon, we resolved to
wait until the delivery to see if we are having another boy, or our first girl.
The Green Light
As the long winter wore
on, Baby #2, and my belly, steadily grew. I saw Dr. W again at 28 weeks. Our meeting,
as always, was brief, pleasant, and completely respectful of my wishes.
Jadon, enjoying the view from Dr. W's waiting room |
At the same time, I
continued to see my midwife every month until the third trimester, when I
started seeing her every other week. At each visit, I was pleased to hear that
my blood pressure was excellent, weight gain was steady, urine samples were
normal, and the uterus size was right on schedule. Baby #2 has even been keeping that head down!
When I reached 36 weeks,
my midwife called Dr. W to have the official “consultation” required for her to
oversee my labor at home. At my next appointment, she reported the good news
that Dr. W considered me an excellent candidate for a VBAC.
I have the official green
light to proceed with the home birth VBAC plans!
My last appointment with Dr. W was last week, at 39 weeks pregnant. Unless I develop
“high risk” pregnancy complications, or go past 42 weeks, I won’t need to see
him again.
And now, the waiting game continues...where did I put that to-do list?
And now, the waiting game continues...where did I put that to-do list?